"Adolescent".... according to whom...compared to whom? And is there any contradictory evidence to that claim?
One of the things about "communicating" is having the flexibility to represent one's self in a number of ways.
Anaways... The goal of becoming a better communicator has never been stated as "Getting everybody to agree with you and feel good - all the time."
Meanwhile, and as I have mentioned in another thread on another site, we are - right now - accessing another
electronic medium - a medium which has as its primary access-point... the Sub-Dominant hemisphere.
This is the hemisphere that generates emotions, completes patterns and the like.
The Dominant hemisphere is the one that retains most of the intellectual and linear processing capacities and is less-engaged when communicating through an electronic medium.
Is it any wonder, then, that internet "flame wars" are so common... and so vitriolic?
Further, ever noticed how much more difficult it is to get through a typed piece on a computer screen (like this one) compared to the same material on a printed page......?
Plus, retention drops off - and quickly. And "spelling" and syntax goes all to hell.
The emotions that are generated from accessing this medium, however, are significant.
Who'd a thunk it?